Jeffrey Dahmer struggles with a difficult family life as a young boy. During his teenage years he slowly transforms, edging closer to the serial killer he was to become.
Ross Lynch
Jeffrey Dahmer
Alex Wolff
John 'Derf' Backderf
Anne Heche
Joyce Dahmer
Dallas Roberts
Lionel Dahmer
Liam Koeth
Dave Dahmer
Nancy Telzerow
Carol Backderf
Tommy Nelson
Neil
Harrison Holzer
Mike
Brigid Naughton
Melody
Cameron McKendry
Moose
Katie Stottlemire
Penny
Brady M.K. Dunn
Bossy
Jake Ingrassia
Gooch
Michael Ryan Boehm
Shorty
Ben Zgorecki
Bully Jock
Dontez James
Charlie Smith
Miles Robbins
Lloyd Figg
Gabriela Novogratz
Lisa Watkins
Jack DeVillers
Oliver Zlatka
Dave Sorboro
Steven Hicks
Joey Prines
Snarky Slacker
Kris Smith
Ms Bowles
Adam Kroloff
Mr Burlman
Christopher Mele
Mr Fedele
Joey Vee
Mr Hicks
Tom Lepera
Mr Lapolla
Vincent Kartheiser
Dr Matthews
Maryanne Nagel
Mrs Woodard
Sydney Meyer
Bridget
Lauren Rhodes
Aide
Tom Luce
Vice President Walter Mondale
Carmen Gangale
Grocery Store Manager
Shane Patrick O'Neill
Restaurant Manager
Joe Fishel
Market Shopper
Andrew Gorell
English Teacher
Susan Bennett
Musical Director
Nicholas Hulstine
Prom Photographer
Zachary Davis Brown
Freshman Boy
Lily Kozub
Freshman Girl
Clayton Frank
Bus Student 1 (uncredited)
Director, Screenplay
Marc Meyers
Comic Book
Derf Backderf
April 18, 2019
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**_Tonally flawless, but narratively weak_**
> _The killing was just a means to an end. That was the least satisfactory part. I didn't enjoy doing that. That's why I tried to create living zombies with uric acid and the drill, but it never worked. No, the killing wasn't the objective. I just wanted to have the person under my complete control, to do with as I wanted. It's not easy to say that, but that's what the motive was._
- Jeffrey Dahmer; speaking to Stone Phillips; _Dateline NBC_ (March 8, 1994)
Taking place over the course of Jeffrey Dahmer's last year in high school, and culminating with the fateful meeting between Dahmer (Ross Lynch) and Steven Hicks (Dave Sorboro), writer/director Marc Meyers's _My Friend Dahmer_ is based on the 2012 graphic novel by Derf Backderf (played in the film by Alex Wolff), who attended the same school as Dahmer, and formed a pseudo-friendship with him. The film is tonally brilliant, coming across like _The Breakfast Club_ (1985) directed by David Fincher, perfectly capturing 80s tackiness. Narratively, however, it's extremely plodding, and could easily have been trimmed by 20 minutes.
It's also difficult to see what Meyers was trying to achieve; other than a couple of brief moments, we're never given any real access to Dahmer's interiority, so he remains an enigma, always at arm's length (which could have been the point). But is Meyers asking us to feel sympathy for Dahmer because he had a difficult adolescence, came from a broken home, couldn't make friends in school; to quote that great line from Michael Mann's _Manhunter_ (1986),
> _my heart bleeds for him, as a child. Someone took a kid and manufactured a monster. At the same time, as an adult, he's irredeemable. He butchers whole families to pursue trivial fantasies. As an adult, someone should blow the sick fuck out of his socks._
Or is this simply a character study (if we didn't know it was about Dahmer, it could be any number of examinations of high school awkwardness)?
The lack of clarity regarding the film's theme is compounded by the scenes where it looks as if Dahmer is about to murder someone, only to stop at the last second. This is an especially strange way to generate tension, insofar as we already know his first murder was Hicks. Also, if the film is actually trying to say something of societal worth regarding serial killers, directionless youth, nature vs. nurture etc, trying to draw an audience into the narrative with the prospect of murder probably isn't the way to go about it. The film also fails to really get into the issues of Dahmer's sexuality, and his confusion and frustration about being gay. It's worth a look, and Lynch's performance is quite something, but if you're already familiar with Dahmer's story, you won't find much insight here.